Realistic Expectations for Adopting a Parrot

Adopting a bird is a wonderful way to add a feathered friend to your family—whether you're considering a private rehome or adopting from a rescue. However, it's important to approach the experience for the right reasons and to be fully prepared for the commitment that comes with it. Bringing a parrot into your home goes far beyond acquiring a cheap or free pet; it’s about investing in a lifelong companion that deserves love, care, and a nurturing environment.

It's crucial to be mindful of the bird’s past experiences, as they can significantly influence their behaviour. Birds that have been through multiple homes or negative experiences may carry the emotional and behavioural scars of their past. These experiences can result in fears, anxiety, or defensive behaviours, and understanding this can help you approach their care with patience and empathy.

It’s essential to have realistic expectations when welcoming a rehomed bird into your home. It may not be love at first sight, and your bird might not immediately step up, seek scratches, or even want to come out of their cage. These initial hesitations are completely normal and should be expected. Unfortunately, frustration can sometimes arise for owners when the bird doesn’t respond the way they hoped. This is a major reason some birds are returned to rescues or rehomed again, which can further damage their confidence and trust.

Here are a few helpful tips to support your rehomed or adopted parrot during their adjustment period:

Reach Out to a Behaviour and Training Consultant: Consider contacting an experienced behaviour and training consultant to guide you through the process. A consultant can offer tailored advice on understanding your bird’s specific needs, addressing behavioural challenges, and providing step-by-step training techniques that promote positive, trust-building interactions. With professional guidance, you can feel more confident in your approach and ensure your bird receives the support they need for a successful transition.

Provide a Spacious Cage: Ensure the cage is large enough to meet your bird's needs, particularly if they’re hesitant to come out or are wary of your approach. A larger cage provides ample space for your bird to move around comfortably, with room to perch, forage, and explore. This can help reduce stress, promote a sense of security, and encourage confidence, making it easier for them to adjust at their own pace.

Create a Safe, Calm Environment: Set up your bird’s cage in a quiet, low-traffic area of your home, away from loud noises or sudden movements. A calm environment will help your bird feel secure as they settle in.

Use Positive Reinforcement: Offer treats, praise, and toys as reinforcement for small steps towards socialising, such as approaching the cage or exploring new areas. This helps to create positive associations with their new environment.

Allow Time to Adjust: Understand that the bird may need time to feel comfortable outside the cage. Don’t rush them into interactions or expect immediate progress. Gradually encourage them to come out when they feel ready.

Ensure Enrichment and Comfort: Make the cage a place your bird enjoys by adding a variety of toys, perches, and foraging opportunities. Enrichment can help alleviate boredom and anxiety, keeping your bird mentally and physically stimulated.

Be Patient with Bonding: Building trust takes time, and every bird is different. Some may need several weeks or even months to feel comfortable enough to trust you. Approach them calmly, avoid forcing contact, and let them come to you when they’re ready.

By following these tips and keeping your expectations realistic, you’ll help your rehomed parrot feel more secure and supported during their transition.

Remember, patience and consistency are key. Every step forward, no matter how small, is progress. By providing a supportive and understanding environment, you’ll help your bird build the trust and confidence needed for a strong, lasting bond. Healing takes time, but with dedication, your parrot will thrive in their new forever home.

Need help with your parrot? Get in touch! Email: contact@parrotlife.com.au Text/Whatsapp: 0477 676 312 (please contact via text first)